Everything happens for a reason…
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there. They serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people, may be your lover, your friend or even complete stranger, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will effect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointlessThe people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned from them… Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones… If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart.. forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautions to whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. You can make of your life anything you wish.Create you own life and then go out and live it. I wish you all the best in your endeavors as well as struggles in life. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in the struggle!:)
I am nobody but myself..
All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was. I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory. I was naïve. I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer. It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with: that I am nobody but myself.